Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Busy Little Learners



Busy Little Learners




Letters, numbers, shape, colors, animals, these all seem to be basic learning concepts, right? Well, we all learned them somewhere. Who taught you? A parent? A grandparent? A teacher? Early childhood is prime time for learning. Little minds are constantly busy and moving! Why not use that to their advantage?  Helping your little one learn is one of the most important things you can do as a parent. This can be very overwhelming to some parents.

Where do I start? How do I do this? What if I mess up? Well, first there is room for error. Helping your child learn can be fun for you and them. There are many free to low cost ways to help your child learn. Children are naturally wanting to learn, so bonus!

How do you start? Well, with basic things like having a routine for them helps. Setting aside time each day or as many as you can.  You can do things like read together, do learning activities like puzzles, letters, numbers, and so on. These skills are important at a young age. Make games to help your young one learn. I find many fun games and activities on Pinterest. Many of the things I find can be made out of things around your home or things that can be purchased cheap at the dollar store or a craft store.

You can even get little bags with these simple activities in to help keep them organized. If you have the space you can create a learning area for you child to help them learn better. They feel like they have a space that is all for them. This helps prepare them for school by learning to sit for a few minutes at a time. It also helps with learning to listen and follow directions.

It is becoming more and more important that our little ones begin learning at a young age. Also, little ones understand that learning is important and can be fun! Pick activities and games which you feel your child will enjoy. Make several different things so they can have a choice and switch things around so they don’t become bored. You could even have them help you make some of the activities as well.

By also helping your child learn you get to influence their learning at a very young age. Plus, you as a parent or grandparent can help build your bond between you and your little one. It gives you and your little one a structure time to spend together each day. Then at some point once they can do the activities on their own they and do them for themselves. This could potentially help you have a little time to do things you need because you know your little is busy doing something.  And your little one has their self esteem boosted because they have learned to do something on their own! How cool is that?!


Monday, July 9, 2018

Little People Big Dreams


Little People…Big Dreams!





What do you want to be when you grow up? Kids are asked this question all the time. Part of childhood is the act of growing up. We ask kids what do they want to be, but do we as adults actually listen and take them seriously?

Yeah, sure you may get some silly answers, a clown, a cowboy, an artist, and so on. But what makes those ideas silly? Most kids eventually figure out what they want to be. Some kids know from the time they are young they want to work with animals or help people.  

Some people including children have a natural gift for things like art or music. Let them go after that. Let them try it out. Please don’t tell them that they can’t do something, just because you don’t understand it. Ask them why they want to do those things or how they want to do those things. Let them educate you in order to learn what they think fits them best.

For me personally I wanted to be a teacher. From a young age I knew I wanted to work with children. I started my college career out as wanting to be a teacher. I then was introduced to counseling and felt God calling me in that direction. I still ended up working with children, just in a different way.

Let kids “research” and check out different types of jobs. Let kids no matter if they are a boy or girl check out jobs in different areas and help them decide what is right for them. Let them test the waters with different jobs. They could job shadow you or someone else to get an idea of what different jobs are like. Or they could go visit places like a police station, a fire house, or a hospital for a tour to get an idea of what those places are like.

Let your kids dream big! Don’t tell them something can’t be done. If you are unsure if it will be something they can make a living at, let them make that choice not you. We seem to discourage kids who want to be an actor or an artist or the latest one is a video game programmer. Why do we do this? Well, you as a parent are concerned if they will make a living at it.

How will your kids know if they don’t try? Anything they want is within their reach if they are encouraged and feel supported. Also, if they want to do a vocational job like welding, let them! Those jobs are in high demand and pay well. Not every person is a school person. Some kids struggle with school and love doing physical labor every day. They work hard and make an honest living so why not?

Dreams do come true if you try and put in the work. Who said dreams are easy? They just need to be possible. As a parent or adult help children make their dreams possible. Be supportive and listen to their choices and ideas. Try not to discourage their ideas.

Kids get enough discouragement in their lives, please don’t add to it. Be their cheering section. Not just at a ball game, also in their game of life.